erase-delete-remove-wipe/rub out-cut-etc...

u can erase someone from your mind
but getting them out from the heart is another story.
(kata buhpy...)

ini untuk teman-temanku tersayang, yang merasa tersayat-sayat akan ingatannya pada seseorang, pada suatu masa, pada air mata dan luka yang tetap menganga...
shallow but worked 4 me ;)

ask yourself, deeply...
is this what u really really really want?
is it based on the exhaustion of your heart or only becoz of u can't take it anymore?
after u figure'em ot, take the next step...

u have to be brave in this step.
u have to collect all the things that remind u of this issue.
anything...
soft or hard copy of photographs, all the things u've shared (movie tickets-first time date bill-etc), things that he/her ever gave u, every little thing that has something to do with this issue.
after u collect'em, u put it on a bin (u can use your old shoes box or any container).
seal it good. store it in a hidden place. at least your eyes won't catch it often.

then, delete all documents that have something to do with this issue.
start with the sms (check your saved items folder), e-mails, his/her writing on your book, if u want to get harder on yourself, delete his/her account from yours (friendster etc, phonebook, email address, etc...)

remove the song play list from your computer that remind u of this issue.

change your fragrance. scent of your body while spending time with him/her will bring the memories alive and make it more difficult for u to move on.

uhm... apalagi ya?
sementara sih itu aja dulu. kalo udah bisa ngelakuin yang di atas, nanti kita ketemu dengan step-step berikutnya.

"if for some reasons we find it hard to erase someone from our heart, start the process by removing it from the routine..."